Twister

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To make the hanami a little bit more fun, I thought of some 'fun games' to do. We did The Twister and because nobody wanted to start it, I&T did something like a demo. After us, it was a team of 2 girls and 2 boys and the catch is, whoever loses drinks beer from the straw...not so bad right? In this case, I did not drink..Thinking about it now, I'm wondering why.

This year's hanami, or should I say, hanami aftermath was really emotional for me &T. We haven't sorted out lots of stuffs, and true...long before we met, he's got friends whom he's really been closed to, but they don't mean anything...at least the way I thought they were. One thing I got out of this is that I realized that T is the kind of person who wants to confront things, no matter how busy he was, he wanted to straighten things ASAP. Although, there are somethings I would have wanted him to stand up for himself, I realized too that probably it's because he's really not into them.

I was watching Grey's Anatomy lately and the last episode is about defining what intimacy means.. I would agree with Marideth, there are no rules of intimacy, it is something that you have to define for yourself. As for me &T, our life together is indeed a Twister, and as for our rules of intimacy - we agreed that there would be none.