uncrapping crappy things

if i have written this blog two years ago, i would have been in the lines of

get out! conquer the world! travel! don't give a damn.

instead, today i would suggest to myself and to people with currently crappy lives to

take it in. cry if you must today. open up. and most importantly, know that not everything is crappy. sure, one or two big things look bleak and hopeless, and your eyes are dowed from shedding too much tears mourning over your unfortunate losses or circumstances. but hey, i am 100% positive that somewhere in that pocket of yours is a tiny blink of hope, or comfort. give yourself time to absorb what the real problem is, and then deal with it. the world will not stop if you stop living, the world will not share your tears, and no matter how much we regret or try to imagine things differently - let's face it, they are what they are. there are some you can fix and some not. And most importantly, there are some that don't need fixing at all. why waste time?